There is a wonderful new
book out by Brian Grazer and Charles Fishman titled A Curious Mind…The Secret to a Bigger Life. You may recognize Brian Grazer who is
the Academy Award winning producer of such films as A Beautiful Mind, Apollo
13, Splash and more. He also produces award winning television shows which have
been nominated for 43 Oscars and 149 Emmys—in other words, he is a successful
entertainment producer!
I first heard about the
book from an interview with Brian in the United Airlines magazine and I loved
reading about how for years Mr. Grazer has been holding “curiosity
conversations” with just about anyone you can think of! He’s sought out interesting and
accomplished strangers—from spies and Nobel laureates to artists and CEO’s.
These talks have inspired many of his films and TV shows.
The book makes a strong
case that “curiosity is the tool that sparks curiosity and curiosity is the
technique that gets to innovation.”
He suggests that questions create the mind-set of innovation and
creativity. Curiosity presumes that “there might be something new out there.” I love the way Brian explains it—he
says” he keeps asking questions until something interesting happens.”
He says that “being
curious and asking questions creates engagement” so there is a link to one of
the most frequently discussed management topics today—employee engagement! Another link to the world of work is
his belief—and I totally agree—that curiosity sparks innovation.
So, what should you do if
you want to have a curious conversation—especially one that might lead you to
innovation? The authors suggest
you start close to home with people you already know—family, friends, work-related
colleagues. Think of someone who might have an interesting job or who has had a
very different life experience from yours. Begin the conversation by telling the person that you’ve
always been curious about their work (or their achievements or education or
whatever makes them unique) and that you’d like to spend 20 minutes or so
talking to you about what they do (or what their challenges are or…)
Here are some tips for
having a successful curious conversation:
·
Be sure to clearly state that you want to hear their story—not that you
are looking to sell them something or looking for advice—you are curious about
them and their story!
·
Be careful to stay within the timeframe you agreed to before you started
so that you honor them.
·
Prepare your questions ahead of time and be sure to ask open ended
questions like, “Tell me about why you decided to study … “or “What was your
first professional success?” or “What’s surprised you the most about where your
passion has taken you?”
·
Even though you have thought your questions through ahead of time, be
flexible if the conversation goes in a new direction! That’s where you will learn the most!
·
Listen carefully and respectfully.
Follow up questions with probes like, “Tell me more…,” “How so?” Your goal is to learn as much as possible from the
conversation.
·
Be grateful for the time the person spent talking to you. Of course, you would thank the person
at the end of the conversation but the authors suggest you send a handwritten
thank you note in which you mention something that was particularly interesting
or in which you share a story of how something they said caused you to think or
behave differently. You can also
send a thank you email but handwritten notes get a lot of attention because no
one sends them anymore! And,
remember, a thank you note should not ask for anything—it is to say how much
you appreciated their time and information!
We challenge you to use
curious conversations to drive innovation in your organization and let us know
how it works for you!
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