Children
in classrooms around the country have been making crafts from construction
paper this month – Pilgrim hats, “Indian headdresses, leaves, pine cones –
symbols of fall and Thanksgiving culture. Stories will be told in school about
how the Indigenous people of North America (Native Americans) shared their
harvest feast with the starving English settlers -- turkey, waterfowl, venison, fish, lobster, clams, berries, fruit, pumpkin, and squash. Not exactly the
turkey, dressing, cranberry sauce, yams and pumpkin pie on this week’s
Thanksgiving table.
For
the Wampanog tribe, the purpose of the harvest feast was to give thanks for the
bounty of food that the growing season had produced -- for the rain and the
sunshine which caused the plants that bore the food to grow. Giving thanks is integral to the Native
American culture. The harvest
celebrations allow a time to reflect on being thankful, to be with family, and
to count blessings.
The
Wampanoags were caring people who lent a hand to the settlers who were, at the
time, less fortunate. They were
heroes who shared their celebration with the Pilgrims. Yet somehow this has become lost.
Did
you know that the day after Thanksgiving is designated as our country's
official day to pay homage to Native American heritage and culture? Somehow, this too has become lost. Black Friday (and now Gray Thursday)
morphed into the official kickoff of the "holiday" shopping season
where we pay homage to retail.
As
the year draws to a close, it’s time to reflect and pay homage to the people
and things that are important. This
year we’ve got a great deal to be thankful for and would like to take a moment
to reflect on the people who helped us with our success. We couldn’t have made
The Essential Workplace Conflict Handbook a reality without them. Shout outs to
Susan Devereaux, our virtual assistant, for editing and formatting the
manuscript and keeping us on track; Marilyn Allen, our literary agent, for her
help and; the staff at Career Press for continuing to believe in us; Sharon
Armstrong, our biggest cheerleader; and our many friends and family members who
labored through the writing process and gave us encouragement.
Reflect
on accomplishments and celebrate successes in your organization. Give thanks to the people who
made those successes happen.
Reflect on your own organizations culture -- it traditions and
celebrations. Review the past,
look to the future and take some time to just be!