Bullies are
all around us—even at work!
According to a recent study by The Workplace Bullying Institute, nearly
30% of us have been bullied at work.
Bullying can have serious implications for both the victim but also on
the organization as a whole.
Bullying
left unchecked can impact morale and increase turnover if employees who are not
being bullied see that their leadership isn’t dealing with the bully and decide
that they’d rather work elsewhere.
So, bullying can impact productivity and the bottom line. Bullying can also have a ripple effect—bullies
breed other bullies!
What is Workplace Bullying?
Workplace
bullying is defined as the repeated infliction of international, malicious, and
abusive behavior that interferes with a person’s ability to do his/her work and
is substantial enough to cause physical and/or psychological harm that a
reasonable person would find hostile or offensive.
Workplace
bullying can take many forms including:
·
Shouting or screaming at a co-worker
·
Singling out a co-worker for unjustified criticism or blame
·
Excluding a co-worker from work activities or social events
·
Ignoring work contributions
·
Using language that embarrasses or humiliates a co-worker
·
Making jokes that repeatedly target the same person
The bad
news is that bullies can be anyone in the organization—including managers and
leaders. I knew of a CEO who
seemed to enjoy picking one person a week to bully. In staff meetings he would verbally attack the selected
individual and go at them until the rest of the leadership team was ready to
bolt from the room or climb under the table. Not only were they incredibly sorry for their colleague,
they knew their turn was coming.
I’ve seen
employees bully their boss and others bully a peer. So, organizations must realize that, if anyone can be a
bully and anyone can be bullied, having a policy against bullying is their
first defense. Policies can be
helpful but to really have an impact, the policy has to be enforced and the
subject of bullying discussed so that everyone knows the organization has zero
tolerance for bullies.
Elements of a Workplace Bullying Policy
A workplace
bullying policy should include:
·
Purpose or objective of the policy
·
Who it covers (all employees, managers, executives,)
·
Definition of workplace bullying*
·
Examples of behaviors that will not be tolerated
·
How to report workplace bullying
·
Investigation process
·
Consequences of workplace bullying
Communication Process
Once you
have your policy developed, this is a great time for a communication blitz on
the topic of workplace bullying.
Train managers on how to spot bullying and how to report it and on how
your policy works. Hold meetings
with all employees to discuss the policy and the consequences of workplace
bullying.
Let
everyone know that each person has a responsibility to keep bullying out of
your organization. This is another place where “if you see it, say it”
applies. Everyone should be aware
of what constitutes bullying behavior and what to do if it happens to them or
if they see it happening around them.
Silence validates bullying behaviors and, since we know bullying can
have a negative effect on the organization as a whole, each employee should be
expected to monitor the behaviors around them.
Employees
need to know that if they are the victim of bullying behavior, the first step
should be to let the bully know that they are not going to accept it. Then, they should let their manager or
HR know it happened. If their
physical well-being is threatened, they should leave the room or building and
call in for help. Most bullying in
the workplace is verbal so this may not be an issue but it certainly should be
discussed.
Bottom Line
Most of us
want to work for organizations where we feel productive and where our contributions
to be valued. Workplace bullying
can impact our organization’s productivity and therefore, our bottom line. Organizations today can’t afford to be
silent on this issue—it’s too important to be overlooked.
This article was
originally published on HR.BLR.com on October 12, 2015
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